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The Elephant in the Room

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The elephant in the room is the pressing problem, biggest secret, or burning question that no one wants to talk about.

Maybe you’re wondering why guys insult girls. Or what to do if a friend posts on social media that they plan to do harm to themselves and / or to their ex. Maybe you wonder how to tell your family that you’re gay or transgender.

The more we try to ignore these “elephants,” the more they dominate.

Our anonymous “Elephant in the Room” Q & A system is a safe and confidential space for asking questions, sharing thoughts, or asking for help related to teen dating abuse, domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking, gender-based violence, and other forms of interpersonal violence. ​All questions/comments are anonymous unless you want to be contacted.

Use the links below to quickly find answers to common “elephants,” submitted by teens and young adults who’ve shared their experiences.


24/7 Helpline1-800-791-4000